At Adri’s 14th Birthday

   May Allah bless you and grants you with successful life my son. You know how much I love you.

My only son has grown up. At this 14 years of age, he doesn't want to be seen hugged or kissed by his mother. I felt rejected sometime, but I’m not hurt. I do understand that a boy his age, has pride too. The most important is I could feel his love towards me. He is a loving son at home. Like his sister, he made us proud of him many times. I hope this will continue……..

27th January 2011 was his 1st birthday celebrated without his sister, Nadia. She could not leave her boarding school, abiding the college’s policy. My hubby, Adri and I , made  three additional patrons at our favorite steak house Victoria Station, Damansara.

Our friendly waiter, Ema, as usual  happily led us to our reserved table, upon our arrival.

After dinner, Ema sang Birthday song for Adri, as loud as he/she could, piercing through my ear drum. We had been hearing his/her voice singing on every birthday of ours. That tells how regular we are at the place. We like him/her although we could not identify his/her gender.

I’ve been thinking…I only have 2 children. In the next few years, when its time for Adri to go to college, the house will be empty. I wonder who would take care of me and my husband when we are old. Will they?Even if they would, would their spouses agree? or shall I start my saving for the old folks home expenses by now? (Perhaps my mother had the same thoughts.)

Happy Birthday my son!