When the other party does not talk and is not focusing on what we are talking about, thats when we know that we talk too much.
When we talk too much. we would sound as if ‘everything I said is right’ and ‘I want it my way’. This situation would provoke inner-disagreement within the other party, which causes a mental block.
Talking to someone who is in a state of mental block, is a waste of saliva.
The message is 'give everyone a chance to talk and to suggest his/her opinion’. No matter how stupid the opinion is, just shut up and listen. Do not make a direct objection before he/she finished his/her words.
Explain why before saying NO or Disagreeing, if you have to object an idea.
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
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2 comments:
long live sister in law..........
littlesisD.
Dear littlesisD,
Thank you.
Anyway, it doesnt apply to your carrer. You have no choice but to talk and talk and talk. No need to shut up before the lecture time is up. LOL!
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